Bhagavad Gita Chapter 11, Verse 44: As a Father Forgives His Son

In Bhagavad Gita 11.44, Arjuna bows and prostrates, seeking Krishna’s grace, and asks him to forbear as a father with a son, a friend with a friend, a lover with the beloved.

Sanskrit Verse

Bhagavad Gita 11.44 · Chapter 11, Vishvarupa Darshana Yoga

अर्जुन उवाच · Arjuna said

तस्मात्प्रणम्य प्रणिधाय कायं
प्रसादये त्वामहमीशमीड्यम्
पितेव पुत्रस्य सखेव सख्युः
प्रियः प्रियायार्हसि देव सोढुम् ॥ ११-४४ ॥

tasmātpraṇamya praṇidhāya kāyaṃ
prasādaye tvāmahamīśamīḍyam
piteva putrasya sakheva sakhyuḥ
priyaḥ priyāyārhasi deva soḍhum

English transliteration tasmaatpranamya pranidhaaya kaayam
prasaadaye tvaamahameeshameedyam
piteva putrasya sakheva sakhyuh
priyah priyaayaarhasi deva sodhum ॥ 11.44 ॥

Translation / Meaning

Therefore, bowing down and prostrating my body, I seek Your grace, O adorable Lord. As a father forgives his son, a friend his friend, a lover the beloved, so please forgive me, O God.

In one line: Arjuna asks the Divine to forgive him as a father, friend or lover forgives.

Word Meanings

Word Meaning
तस्मात् tasmāt therefore
प्रणम्य praṇamya bowing down
प्रणिधाय praṇidhāya prostrating
कायम् kāyam body
प्रसादये prasādaye I seek grace
त्वाम् tvām You
अहम् aham I
ईशम् īśam Lord
ईड्यम् īḍyam adorable
पिता pitā father
इव iva as
पुत्रस्य putrasya of a son
सखा sakhā friend
इव iva as
सख्युः sakhyuḥ of a friend
प्रियः priyaḥ lover
प्रियायाः priyāyāḥ of the beloved
अर्हसि arhasi please
देव deva O God
सोढुम् soḍhum to forgive

Word-wise Chanting

Metre: Triṣṭubh · 4 pādas of 11 syllables

  1. tas–māt–pra–ṇam–ya pra–ṇi–dhā–ya kā–yaṃ 11 syllables tas-maat-pra-nam-ya pra-ni-dhaa-ya kaa-yam
  2. pra–sā–da–ye tvā–ma–ha–mī–śa–mīḍ–yam | 11 syllables pra-saa-da-ye tvaa-ma-ha-mee-sha-meed-yam
  3. pi–te–va put–ras–ya sa–khe–va sakh–yuḥ 11 syllables pi-te-va put-ras-ya sa-khe-va sakh-yuh
  4. pri–yaḥ pri–yā–yār–ha–si de–va so–ḍhum || 11-44 11 syllables pri-yah pri-yaa-yaar-ha-si de-va so-dhum
How to read this

How to chant: each line is one pāda (quarter-verse); chant it in one breath. The hyphen (-) divides the syllables, inside a word and across a sandhi join, so every pāda shows its 8 syllables (11 in triṣṭubh verses). A consonant cluster is divided after its first consonant (kar-ma, vet-ti): that syllable is held longer. Mark above a syllable: guru, long (two beats); laghu, short (one beat). | closes the half-verse, || the verse; the number is the syllable count of the pāda.

Deeper Explanation – Chapter 11 Verse 44

Context

Arjuna continues his hymn (11.36–11.46).

Meaning

Arjuna prostrates his whole body and seeks prasāda, grace. He asks the Divine to forbear with him in three intimate ways: as a father with a son, as a friend with a friend, and as a lover with the beloved. These are the relationships of love that naturally forgive.

The verse reveals that the Divine relates to us in all forms of love. Its forgiveness is as natural as a parent’s, a friend’s or a lover’s.

In Practice

Ask the Divine for forgiveness today with the trust of a child before a loving parent.

Continue Your Study

This verse belongs to Chapter 11: Vishvarupa Darshana Yoga (The Vision of the Universal Form). Read the chapter overview, browse every verse of the Gita, or return to the chapter-by-chapter guide. For a reading plan, see how to study the Bhagavad Gita and the study resources.